What’s Happening in My Kitchen This Week

Well hello. Fancy seeing you here.  I decided that two weeks before finals would be a great time to start an internship, plus we’re still in marathon training and the wedding is two months away from today. But I don’t think not writing is actually helping me any. I think it’s just giving me more time to obsess about wedding details and wonder why my house isn’t organized (I don’t actually get up and organize it though) and take more naps. And don’t get me wrong, I love naps, but the part of me that is jonesing for self expression is getting pretty loud. So here I am.

Despite all the craziness, I’ve been in the kitchen quite a bit. It hasn’t been anything fascinating – lentils and roasted vegetables with caramelized onions or pasta with steamed asparagus and toasted almonds. It turns out it takes a lot of time to actually cook and clean and get food on the table and while I used to take a lot of photos of lentil dishes with recipes I didn’t actually create, I can’t help thinking “what’s the point?” and just watching another episode of “House of Cards” instead.

But this week I actually have a meal plan, and I thought I’d share it with you. Apparently, it’s the week of salads, with a soup thrown in for good measure:

Plus a fancy granola for snacks: Cranberry Walnut Paleo Granola

I’m pretty stoked about the soup. Full fat coconut milk is delicious, decadent, and divine. I’m ready to slurp it down.

Until next time, my friends. 

April Goals, Week 3: Commitment

I promise that I’ve been eating and exercising and I owe you an update on that stuff soon. I just had my last midterm and now finals are looming, PLUS it’s spring and it’s so nice out that I’ve avoided my computer just a bit.

But I’ve had some fun adventures to share such as a trip to New York where I stayed in the smallest room ever that didn’t have a ceiling:

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And enjoyed a delicious shake from One Lucky Duck:

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Then I went on to LA where I got in a nice long walk along the beach.

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And then I finally went on a girl’s trip to San Luis Obispo where I didn’t take too many pictures because I was eating, chatting, and laughing too much.

All of this traveling means that I haven’t been stretching or foam rolling as much as I should. I’ve definitely let my commitment get away from me. So I’m thinking of adding another goal on top of continuing to stretch and foam roll for the month of May.

While it’s fun to switch up goals every month, I also think it sometimes doesn’t give us quite enough time to develop the habit that we’re striving for. Especially if it’s a tougher goal, it’s easy to let it go at the end of the month. There is power in the commitment we make each month that drives us and when that commitment is gone, sometimes that goal slides away along with it.

Even though I am training for a marathon, I am not one of those people that loves running and can’t wait to lace up my shoes. Especially now where our training runs are long, I don’t always want to go. Finals are coming up, we have a wedding to plan, there are birthdays to celebrate, etc. But I put on my shoes and I get out there and sometimes the runs are as awful as I expect them to be and sometimes they are awesome. Either way, I get my butt out there and do it because I committed to doing it and I know it will make for a better race, keep me healthy, and is quality time to spend with Alex.
Showing up – whatever that means for your goal – can seem daunting. But once you do it enough, it becomes ingrained in your behavior pattern and suddenly you find that you have plenty of room to do it. So don’t shortchange yourself and let go just because it’s hard. Just show up and go from there.
Here’s a great link from Zen Habits on when to quit your habits (the answer is when you don’t want to anymore!)

The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor.
Vince Lombardi 

Commitment is an act, not a word.
Jean-Paul Sartre

Productivity is never an accident. It is always the result of a commitment to excellence, intelligent planning, and focused effort.
Paul J. Meyer 

Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans.
Peter F. Drucker

Reflections on Tragedy

There are a lot of posts swirling around in my head right now – travel recaps, meal plans, recipe ideas. But as a runner and in the wake of Boston, I’m going put them briefly on hold.

I’m not sure what great reflections can be had for something so senseless as yesterday’s tragedy. As a runner, it was devastating and scary. As a human, it was both horrifying to consider that someone would orchestrate an attack and uplifting to see how the Boston and running community came together in the aftermath. As tragedies tend to do, have made me hug my loved ones a little tighter and consider how I’m moving my life forward. 

Having run one marathon and going into the next in only a few months, I can attest to the sense of camaraderie, celebration, and community that races create. I honestly don’t love to run, but I love to race; not because I’m fast and want to win, but because I’ve never felt more energized than when I’m running out of the gate or getting cheered by spectators or crossing the finish line of a race, any race. I have also found myself welling up with pride and tears being a spectator at races – even for people I don’t know. I recently cheered on my 8 year old nephew at his first 5k; I almost burst with happiness when he crossed the finish line. Races are places where runners and non-runners alike come together to celebrate dedication and persistence. My heart aches for those who lost that sense of community and celebration yesterday; really, my heart just aches.  

This morning on our run, Alex and I didn’t talk much. We didn’t see too many other runners, either. Maybe people were taking a few extra minutes in bed with their cat, their loved ones, or a book and a cup of tea. In light of tragic events, I always feel a push pull – the push to get out and do something and make a difference and the desire to pull back and retreat and breathe deeply for just another minute. Today, I chose running because I figured that’s what runners do – we run. We get out there and put one foot in front of the other. I have no doubt that Boston and the running community will come out of this stronger than ever before. 

I’m also feeling the need to acknowledge that tragedies, both in this country and around the world, happen every day. Big and small, publicly and privately, people are suffering violence and hate. What happened in Boston is a manifestation that should shake us to attention. It has made me ask myself, “how am I contributing to the world I want to live in?” “What could I be doing to inadvertently perpetuate inequality, hate, and injustice?” These are hard questions with complicated answers that deserve to be considered by all of us. When things are happening outside of our realm of experience – in another city, another state, another country – we tend to be able to shake them off. I wish this had never happened, but I hope that because it has, we will use it as a time to reflect deeply and seriously on the role we have to play in changing this world. 

 

This was long and rambly and maybe doesn’t make a lot of sense. But I wanted to acknowledge this and send my love and prayers to everyone in Boston and everyone everywhere whose lives are affected by violence. I wanted to say that I know we can make a difference if we try, so let’s put one foot in front of the other and start trying. 

April Goals: The Comparison Trap

Okay, so I can already tell that the weather is changing this afternoon from where it was this morning. The last few days have been calm, the city sounds muted by the sunshine and higher temps. Now, the trees in the backyard are blowing and I know a cold front is moving in, which is why my wardrobe is useful year round in SF – I never pack away coats or skirts because I never know when I’ll be able to wear them!

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However fleeting it may be, the sunny weather has been giving me energy, and I was thinking that maybe I’d choose a bigger and “more meaningful” goal than foam rolling/stretching for the month. Other people’s goals seemed better and more exciting than mine! And then I realized that I have foam rolled exactly twice since the start of the month. And maybe I’ve stretched those other days, but I can’t guarantee it. So I realized that perhaps this isn’t such a small goal after all. Or at least, it’s not an easy one so maybe I shouldn’t just give up on it because it doesn’t seem very exciting. 

Lesson: The comparison trap is always lurking, and the only way to avoid falling into it is to consciously step over it. We can achieve our goals by supporting each other AND ourselves! 
 
  • It is not easy to find happiness in ourselves, and it is not possible to find it elsewhere.  ~Agnes Repplier
  • You are your own judge.  The verdict is up to you.  ~Astrid Alauda
  • The finest thing in the world is knowing how to belong to oneself.  ~Michel de Montaigne, Of Solitude
  • Take the time to come home to yourself every day.  ~Robin Casarjean
I admit to a certain sense of insecurity as of late. Perhaps it’s because of our impending wedding celebration (I quelled my Pinterest addiction early) or because I’m in class and only working very part time (I need to do ALL THE THINGS) or because spring brings feelings of change and reflection, and in that comes the question of “what am I actually doing?”
 
In response to that, I had several wise people tell me to go with my gut and what I like and want to do and to spend less time caring about what others think and more time moving forward. And then, of course, I ran into this post on intuition by my supremely insightful friend Nitika. It seems to have popped up at just the right time, as so often happens. 
 
To deal with the comparison trap pitfall, I’ve been doing a lot of deep breathing and self talk and checking my compulsive need to check Facebook/Instagram/Reader and turn my focus inward or taking the time to enjoy whatever environment I happen to be in at the moment (BART rides are particularly fruitful to observe). Oh, and writing run on sentences because sometimes I’m just not ready for a full stop. 
 
So as you tackle your goals this month, don’t let what other folks are doing get you down! There is plenty of love and success in the world to go around; we don’t have to hoard it or be fearful that we’ll lose it/never get enough. Allow yourself to be inspired by what others are doing, but don’t get attached to those same results!

How Breathing Is Changing My Runs

I once had a coworker tell me he started running. Before he started, he got books on technique from the library and watched YouTube videos on proper form. I congratulated him while inside I was a touch bewildered. I just threw my shoes and socks on and hit the pavement. I once had a guy say “nice gait” during a race but I figured it was just a runner-friendly pick-up line. 

Since then, I have refined my form a bit. My shoulders are actually relaxed, my fisted hands don’t swing crazily near my face, and I try to be conscious of my foot strike. But the one thing I never thought much about was my breath. 

When I saw it come up on blogs or magazines, there were always different experts endorsing a different technique. “Run and the breath will follow,” “only breathe through your nose,” “breathe in for two steps and out for two steps.” So I sorta just breathed how I breathed and didn’t think much about it. 

My copy of Runner’s World came last week and as I was paging through it, I read an article called “Running on Air: Breathing Technique.” I almost just flipped past it, but figured I’d see what the new-fangled theory was now. 

I won’t get into the details because the article explains it much better than I can, but it boils down to an uneven rhythmic breathing pattern. The article focuses on 3 breaths in, 2 breaths out, so your exhales alternate between sides. According to the article, this can prevent injury because of the relationship between exhaling and impact. 

I figured I had nothing to lose so I tried it out, first on a short treadmill run. The run flew by and my breathing stayed regular. I tried it on a longer run outside with hills and downhills, and the same thing happened – the run didn’t feel as tedious and I noticed fewer twinges in my legs and hips. During speedwork a few days later, I switched to a 2-1 technique and it worked beautifully. 

I finally tried it last weekend on our long run – 15 miles. Normally, I need constant chatter on long runs to keep me distracted. Alex isn’t always much of a talker, so I usually prattle away while he gives me the occasional nod or grunt. But I found with the 3-2 breathing technique, I was actually focused on how I was feeling and enjoying the run, not counting down the miles. This week I tweaked it a bit to a 4-3 rhythm, because I find the 3-2 to be a bit like forced panting on slower runs. Maybe if I ever get faster, that’ll be the ticket. 

Now, I can’t say with any certainty whether breathing this way is preventing injury. What I can say is that it has changed the way I think while I’m running. In fact, running feels a lot more like meditation now and I drop into the zone a lot faster. Perhaps it would be the same if I focused on my breathing in any intervals, I’m not sure. But this seems to be working for me, so I’ll take it. 

Breathing is so basic that we often take it for granted, but it’s actually a very powerful, if often subtle, force. In yoga this morning, the teacher talked about how our breath moves energy through the body, even when we can’t feel it. My cousin who has a yoga studio in Montreal called The Little Yoga Room once told me how she went out for a 10 mile run on the spur of the moment and had no problem because yoga had trained her how to breathe. I practice yoga for a lot of reasons, but the fact that it can help my running is a nice bonus. 

Like yoga, I think of running as a practice. I’ll always be tweaking and refining and learning and changing this or that or the other. But having the fundamentals down makes it a lot easier to build and grow. 

 

April Goals: Fear of Success

Happy April everyone! 
 
I don’t know about the rest of you, but even with the sunny weather we’ve had this winter, I’ve been in slow-down mode for the last few months. Even when I’ve been busy and checking things off my to-do list, my mindset has been “slow and steady wins the race.” I’ve been nesting a bit (although our walls are still pretty bare) and spending quite a bit of time on the couch. 
 
Well folks, times they are a changin’! We’re launching into April and we’re launching into spring and it’s time to step it up! I firmly believe we should always be kind to ourselves, and part of that is knowing when to step back and take some pressure off. But the other part of it is knowing when you’re phoning it in and take a hard look at your priorities so you can see where to push yourself. 
 
This week, I’m confronting the possibility that fear of success that might be holding me back from reaching my goals. It sounds silly, but I find it happens to me more than I’d like to admit. 
 
Successfully reaching goals can be scary because it can dramatically change the path of your life. If you commit to working out 4 times per week this month and you do it and feel great, you’re going to want to work out 4 times per week every month and how will you ever find the time?! Or maybe you really want to write a novel but what if you do and it’s great and suddenly you have to deal with getting a book published and possibly going on a book tour? Or maybe you want to finally kick your sweets habit but are worried about what will happen at friend and family gatherings with copious amounts of dessert. 
 
When we gain something by being successful, it means we have more to lose.   There is pressure around being successful – what if you don’t sustain your goals? Success requires change, and that alone is scary enough to sometimes make us hold ourselves back. Here’s an article from Tiny Buddha (one of my favorite blogs) on how to overcome the fear of success and start thriving.
 
Don’t set yourself up to fail by holding yourself to unrealistic, impossibly high standards. But DO set standards and push yourself to meet them! Even if we stumble along the way or even if we have to do it in small steps, everyone on this list is capable of making big, lasting life changes. 
 
How am I going to live today in order to create the tomorrow I’m committed to?  ~Anthony Robbins
 
Don’t be afraid to take a big step if one is indicated; you can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps. ~David Lloyd George
 
Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.  ~T.S. Eliot
 
My goal for this month is to foam roll and/or stretch every day – I’m traveling a lot and I don’t want to lug my foam roller everywhere. Marathon training wreaks havoc on your body and foam rolling is like a (painful) mini massage. If I’m going to push body to run 26.2 miles, I better damn well take care of it! Maybe it’s not a big life changing goal, but it is a small step toward prioritizing myself and my body, and I’ll take it!
 

Product Review: a*pour toi

As part of the Oomea critic lunch last month, we received a gift box from a*pour toi to review. a*pour toi has a range of gift boxes from large and luxurious to small and sweet filled with goodies that are supposed to taste good and be on the healthier side. They even have gluten-free and lactose-free boxes. We received the amour chic and chocolate box.

I have a massive sweet tooth, but I’m also a health nut, so I was excited to crack open the box. I recruited Alex as a tester (tough life), and we dove in.

To start, the packaging is lovely. The box is sturdy and definitely reusable, as is the canvas bag inside the box. The design is simple and tasteful. According to the website, you can add your own photograph to the box as well, which makes a nice personalized touch to a gift.

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Okay, so it looks cool, so what? How does everything taste?

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There were a wide range of items. The box contained:

  • Hazelnut spread
  • Pate de fruits 
  • Strawberry vanilla marshmallow
  • Milk chocolate covered hazelnuts
  • Chocolate pops
  • Vanilla sea salt caramels
  • Dark chocolate banana bars

My favorite item was probably the pate de fruits (shocking, since I’m usually obsessed with chocolate) and the hazelnut spread, which tasted simliar to Nutella but was heavier on the hazelnuts. The fruit candies were not-to-sweet and actually tasted like the fruit they were supposed to be, which is always a pleasant surprise!

Overall, everything tasted solidly good and I believe that this would make a great gift box, particularly for a corporate event of sorts. I can see gifting these to sponsors or speakers to thank them for their time and effort. The boxes are classy, the treats are tasty, and they mostly contain real and natural ingredients.

The items are far less processed than a Snickers or a Hershey’s bar, and definitely tasted better. The amour chic and chocolate box retails for $55, which signifies it to me as a luxury item and I will say that the treats in the box are not significantly different in quality or nutritional value than other expensive desserts I’ve enjoyed. Also, at the core, whether the ingredients are sugar in the raw or table sugar or agave, the fact is that the items in the amour chic and chocolate box still contain a sizable dose of sugar (especially if you are eating it all at once, like we were!). I love and regularly indulge in a good treat, so I definitely believe there is room in a balanced lifestyle for this, but I just mean to say that just because the ingredient list is shorter, doesn’t mean it’s automatically healthy.

On the whole, it’s great to see a whole box of items where the ingredient list is recognizable, with pretty sweet packaging to boot. Thank you again to Oomea and a*pour toi for giving me this box of goodies to try!

Please note: I received the a*pour toi chic and chocolate gift box for free. I was not compensated in any way by a*pour toi or Oomea for my opinions stated here. These are my personal views on the product.